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I am a data nerd. If I can track it, I will optimize it.
So, when the new generation of health wearables came out—promising to track my Deep Sleep, REM cycles, Heart Rate Variability (HRV), and “Recovery Score”—I bought one immediately.
My goal was simple: I wanted to sleep better.
I wore the watch 24/7. I charged it while I showered so I wouldn’t miss a single minute of data. I treated my “Sleep Score” like a grade on a test.
But after three months of rigorous tracking, I noticed a strange pattern. I wasn’t sleeping better. In fact, I was exhausted. I was suffering from a modern condition psychologists call “Orthosomnia”—an unhealthy obsession with getting “perfect” sleep data.
Here is how a device designed to reduce stress ended up doubling it, and the healthy balance I finally found.
The Morning “Score” Ritual
For 90 days, the very first thing I did when I opened my eyes wasn’t to stretch or kiss my partner. It was to check my wrist.
I needed to know my score.
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Scenario A: I woke up feeling groggy. I checked the watch. It said “Sleep Score: 85 – Good.” Suddenly, I felt better. “Oh, I guess I am rested,” I told myself.
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Scenario B: I woke up feeling great, full of energy. I checked the watch. It said “Sleep Score: 42 – Poor Recovery.” Instantly, my mood crashed. I started looking for symptoms of fatigue that weren’t there. “I must be tired,” I thought. “The watch says I’m drained.”
I realized I had stopped trusting my own body and started trusting an algorithm.
The “Nocebo” Effect
I later learned there is a scientific name for what I was experiencing in Scenario B: The Nocebo Effect.
It is the opposite of the Placebo Effect. If you believe something is going to make you feel bad, your brain will actually create those symptoms.
Because my watch told me I had a “bad night,” my brain flooded my system with stress hormones. I was creating a self-fulfilling prophecy. I was ruining my day because a plastic sensor on my wrist told me to.
The Data vs. Reality
The breaking point came when I compared my data to my actual performance in the gym.
On a Tuesday, my watch gave me a “1% Recovery” score (the lowest possible). It told me to take a rest day. I felt fine, so I went to the gym anyway and hit a personal best on the bench press.
Two days later, I had a “95% Recovery” score. I went for a run and felt like I was running through mud. I had to stop after 10 minutes.
I realized then that consumer sleep trackers are estimation tools, not medical devices. They track movement and heart rate, but they cannot measure the chemical processes in your brain or how your muscles actually feel.
How I Fixed My Relationship with Tech
I didn’t throw the watch in the trash. I still love tracking my runs and my step count. But I had to set strict boundaries to save my sanity.
Here are the three rules I use now to avoid “Data Anxiety”:
1. The “Naked Wrist” Policy at Night
I stopped wearing the watch to bed. This was terrifying for the first week. “How will I know if I slept well?” I panicked. But the answer was obvious: I know I slept well if I feel good. Removing the device removed the pressure to “perform” while I was unconscious.
2. Notifications Off
I turned off all “Wellness Notifications.” I don’t need my wrist to buzz at 3:00 PM to tell me to “Breathe.” I don’t need an alert telling me my stress levels are high (which only makes them higher). My watch is now a passive recorder, not an active nagger.
3. Subjective Logging
Instead of digital tracking, I started keeping a one-line journal by my bed. Every morning, I write one sentence: “Rank energy 1-10.” This forces me to check in with myself before I check in with technology.
Conclusion: The Tool Should Serve You
Technology is incredible. The fact that we can measure our heart rate variability from our wrist is a miracle of modern engineering.
But we are currently in a phase where we have too much data and not enough context.
If you find yourself waking up and immediately checking a screen to tell you how you feel, you might be suffering from Orthosomnia too.
Try taking the watch off for three nights. You might find that the best sleep tracker you own is actually your own brain.
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Disclaimer: I am not a doctor or sleep specialist. This article is based on my personal experience with consumer electronics. If you have chronic sleep issues (insomnia, sleep apnea), please consult a medical professional.
